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Is It Possible to Help a Student Who is “Confused About Everything?”

January 9, 2024 By Dave Stuart Jr. 3 Comments

Practically and reliably? No. I have as much likelihood to help a student who says, “I'm confused about everything,” as I have throwing a dart at a dartboard with my eyes closed.

Can you get a bullseye on a dartboard with your eyes closed? Yes.

Can you get better at getting bullseyes if you practice blind dart throwing a lot? Yes.

But is this the best way to get a dart to the bullseye?

No.

For sure not.

We're better off, it turns out, if we throw darts with our eyes opened.

Which means we've got to relentlessly teach our students how to identify where, exactly, they are getting confused.

Easy, right?

No. Not easy. This is very hard — especially in cases where a student has learned over the years that saying “I'm confused” is a shortcut to getting the teacher to do the work for you. You don't need to mildly electrocute dogs (😢) to know what learned helplessness looks like in a classroom.

But colleague, which of the following is harder?

  1. Working each day to help your students identify specific confusion points; OR
  2. Throwing your hands up when they say, “I'm confused about everything!” and then A) giving up on them in your own demonstration of learned helplessness or B) giving them the shortcut that they've learned often comes when they present as helpless?

It's Option 1, all day.

So, this is my question for you today: how do you work to help students sharpen general confusion into the specific and actionable kind?

Best,

DSJR

P.S. This is the kind of thing we're working through in the first cohort of the Principles of Learning Course. You can join that community today.

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    1. Michelle Roy says

      January 10, 2024 at 9:55 am

      I ask the confused student to explain the last idea, concept, point, he or she did understand, and then I use what the student says to ask questions and build understanding from there.

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    2. Dave Stuart Jr. says

      January 10, 2024 at 1:47 pm

      Brilliant! I love it. Thanks for adding your voice to this article, Michelle!

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    3. Ann G says

      January 20, 2024 at 2:54 pm

      Dave, this is such a good point and such I think one of the key skills I need to teach effectively is identifying the point(s) of confusion.

      I try to be a bit playful with it and ask if they really mean *everything* and when they (often) agree, I go back to super basics. In math/physics, asking them if they’re okay with identifying the values in the question, then identifying what we are looking for, then setting up an equation… Essentially walking them through the steps I’ve tried to teach them, one at a time. My goal is also to help them see that there is actually quite a bit they do understand.

      I would love to hear more ideas about this!

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