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Tribe Of Mentors: Short Life Advice from the Best in the World Hardcover – November 21, 2017
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In 2017, several of my close friends died in rapid succession. It was a very hard year, as it was for many people.
It was also a stark reminder that time is our scarcest, non-renewable resource.
With a renewed sense of urgency, I began asking myself many questions:
Were my goals my own, or simply what I thought I should want?
How much of life had I missed from underplanning or overplanning?
How could I be kinder to myself?
How could I better say “no” to the trivial many to better say “yes” to the critical few?
How could I best reassess my priorities and my purpose in this world?
To find answers, I reached out to the most impressive world-class performers in the world, ranging from wunderkinds in their 20s to icons in their 70s and 80s. No stone was left unturned.
This book contains their answers—practical and tactical advice from mentors who have found solutions. Whether you want to 10x your results, get unstuck, or reinvent yourself, someone else has traveled a similar path and taken notes.
This book, Tribe of Mentors, includes many of the people I grew up viewing as idols or demi-gods. Less than 10% have been on my podcast (The Tim Ferriss Show, more than 200 million downloads), making this a brand-new playbook of playbooks.
No matter your challenge or opportunity, something in these pages can help.
Among other things, you will learn:
• More than 50 morning routines—both for the early riser and those who struggle to get out of bed.
• How TED curator Chris Anderson realized that the best way to get things done is to let go.
• The best purchases of $100 or less (you'll never have to think about the right gift again).
• How to overcome failure and bounce back towards success.
• Why Humans of New York creator Brandon Stanton believes that the best art will always be the riskiest.
• How to meditate and be more mindful (and not just for those that find it easy).
• Why tennis champion Maria Sharapova believe that “losing makes you think in ways victories can’t.”
• How to truly achieve work-life balance (and why most people tell you it isn’t realistic).
• How billionaire Facebook co-founder Dustin Moskovitz transformed the way he engages with difficult situations to reduce suffering.
• Ways to thrive (and survive) the overwhelming amount of information you process every day.
• How to achieve clarity on your purpose and assess your priorities.
• And much more.
This reference book, which I wrote for myself, has already changed my life. I certainly hope the same for you.
I wish you luck as you forge your own path.
All the best,
Tim Ferriss
- Print length624 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherHarper Business
- Publication dateNovember 21, 2017
- Dimensions7 x 1.82 x 9 inches
- ISBN-101328994961
- ISBN-13978-1328994967
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TIM FERRISS has been called “a cross between Jack Welch and a Buddhist monk” by The New York Times. He is one of Fast Company’s “Most Innovative Business People” and an early-stage tech investor/advisor in Uber, Facebook, Twitter, Shopify, Duolingo, Alibaba, and 50+ other companies. He is also the author of four #1 New York Times and Wall Street Journal bestsellers: The 4-Hour Workweek, The 4-Hour Body, The 4-Hour Chef, and Tools of Titans. The Observer and other media have named him “the Oprah of audio” due to the influence of his podcast, The Tim Ferriss Show, which has exceeded 200 million downloads and been selected for “Best of iTunes” three years running.
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- Publisher : Harper Business
- Publication date : November 21, 2017
- Edition : First Edition
- Language : English
- Print length : 624 pages
- ISBN-10 : 1328994961
- ISBN-13 : 978-1328994967
- Item Weight : 2.2 pounds
- Dimensions : 7 x 1.82 x 9 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #29,823 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #110 in Business Motivation & Self-Improvement (Books)
- #187 in Motivational Management & Leadership
- #189 in Success Self-Help
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Tim Ferriss has been listed as one of Fast Company‘s ‘Most Innovative Business People’ and one of Fortune‘s ‘40 under 40’. He is an early-stage technology investor/advisor (Uber, Facebook, Shopify, Duolingo, Alibaba, and 50+ others) and the author of four #1 New York Times and Wall Street Journal bestsellers, including The 4-Hour Workweek, The 4-Hour Body, The 4-Hour Chef and Tools of Titans. The Observer and other media have called Tim ‘the Oprah of audio’ due to the influence of The Tim Ferriss Show podcast, which is the first business/interview podcast to exceed 200 million downloads. Tim received his BA from Princeton University in 2000, where he focused on language acquisition and East Asian Studies. He developed his non-fiction writing with Pulitzer Prize winner John McPhee and formed his life philosophies under Nobel Prize winner Kenzaburo Oe. He is far dumber than both. Tim enjoys bear claws, chocolate croissants, writing ‘About’ pages in third person and neglecting italics.
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Customers find the book full of gems of wisdom and appreciate its straightforward format with easy-to-read short sections. They consider it a worthwhile purchase, with one customer noting that the last chapter is particularly valuable. The book is fun to read, with one customer highlighting the value of reading about routines, and customers describe it as interesting and completely unique. While many customers love the many quotes, some find the content repetitive.
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Customers find the book's advice massively insightful and full of gems of wisdom, particularly appreciating the questions and answers format.
"...They more resemble reference books. This particular book is a collection of interviews and the table of contents is the list of 100’ish names of..." Read more
"...to the same questions, providing a breadth and range of personality and knowledge on the topics; a range that I have never seen paralleled...." Read more
"...There's a wealth of information here. Find someone you respect, and read their answers to Tim's top questions. That's golden...." Read more
"...Not only is the story good, the supporting poem deep and the conclusion simple. It's a profound end to everything that I think should be read first...." Read more
Customers find the book worth the money, with several noting that the last chapter is particularly valuable.
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"...This book, your work, is priceless. You are truly saving lives. Please never stop inspiring others and helping them to find their way...." Read more
Customers find the book fun to read, particularly enjoying the truths and routines shared by the authors. One customer mentions it's perfect for busy people.
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"...2. I really like the format. The small nuggets of wisdom can be consumed quickly, yet digested over a longer period of time...." Read more
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"...7. The quotes throughout the book and the nice aesthetic design elements throughout makes it an enjoyable experience to read...." Read more
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"...that we’re eye opening. Highly recommend. It looks like an intimidating read but honestly, it’s easy to digest and very relatable content" Read more
"...cast of mentors with carefully curated question, which he artfully explains, and brilliant interludes of rejection responses and resources...." Read more
Customers find the book valuable, describing it as a great addition to their collection and full of gems, with one customer noting it's loaded with practical nuggets.
"...If you've already read Tools of Titans, Tribe of Mentors is a nice companion piece, but doesn't stand as well on its own." Read more
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- Reviewed in the United States on August 5, 2018Format: HardcoverVerified PurchaseI don’t recall exactly how I was turned on to Time Ferriss, but he’s been a constant in my journey since I began seeking my true self and searching for my purpose. He’s directly or indirectly responsible for a large chunk of my influences and post graduate adult learning. I listen to most podcasts he releases and I own all his books. I haven’t read all the books cover to cover for various reasons, but all of his books aren’t designed to be read cover to cover from page 1 to “The End”. I did however read Tim’s latest book, "Tribe of Mentors", cover to cover. And I did it in a fairly short amount of time (for me) considering it’s 570+ pages.
The full title is “Tribe of Mentors: Short Life Advice From the Best in the World”. Copyright 2017. Houghton Mifflin Harcourt Publishing New York, New York. I pre-ordered this book and received a 1st Edition Hardcopy. I can’t remember the cost; just shy of $30 probably.
My first impression of the book was its familiar size. Very similar to rest of his books approximately 9” tall X 7” wide X 2” thick. It doesn’t weigh as much as it looks like it should. Mostly black and gold colored cover with Carolina Blue highlights. No jacket. The paper is off white, grainy, and kinda sticky. Got that good “new book” smell. (Come to think of it, old books smell good too.) It’s bound in a way to create ridges on the fore-edge so thumbing through the book and quickly flipping pages is easy.
As I mentioned, Tim’s books aren’t story books. They more resemble reference books. This particular book is a collection of interviews and the table of contents is the list of 100’ish names of the questionees and where their answers can be found. As a cool twist Tim includes a few of the rejection letters he received from people he’d asked to participate. This addition emphasizes how folks with couth and courtesy say “Thank you but no thank you”.
My favorite feature of the book is that all the interviewees were given the same 11 questions to ponder and respond. Tim dissects each question and reveals how and why he crafted them and what he’s looking to get out of them. The feature of repeated questions makes reading the book very rhythmic. The pages go by quickly and the mind switches to auto-pilot. It’s more like to listening to a conversation than reading. The 11 questions are:
What is the book (or books) you’ve given most as a gift and why? Or what are one to three books that have greatly influenced your life?
What purchase of $100 or less has most positively impacted your life in the last six months or recent memory?
How has a failure, or apparent failure, set you up for later success? Do you have a “favorite failure” of yours?
If you could have one gigantic billboard anywhere with anything on it—metaphorically speaking, getting a message out to millions or billions—what would it say and why? It could be a few words or a paragraph.
What is on the best or most worthwhile investments you’ve ever made? (Money, time, energy, etc…)
What is an unusual habit or absurd thing that you love?
In the last five years, what new belief, or behavior, or habit has most improved your life?
What advice would you give a smart, driven college student about to enter the “real world”? What advice should they ignore?
What are bad recommendations you hear in your profession or area of expertise?
In the last five years, what have you become better at saying no to (distractions, invitations, etc.)? What new realizations and/or approaches helped? Any other tips?
When you feel overwhelmed or unfocused or have lost your focus temporarily, what do you do?
Only high performers were questioned (some of which I was familiar, some not) and they lead us down a rabbit hole with their answers. They suggest enough books, TED talks, poems, articles, authors, etc. to keep anyone busy for years to come. Tim also lists each interviewee’s social media handle(s) so readers can connect and follow on the interwebz.
Tim’s organization of the massive amounts of information in this book is meticulous. He includes a list of recorded conversations from respondents and where to find them online. He includes a mentor index. Not every respondent answered every question so Tim includes an index of questions answered by interviewee. He even includes blank lined pages for readers to use in making their own notes and indexes.
Style and substance of “Tribe of Mentors” is lockstep. An amazingly informative book presented in a friendly conversational style. The books organization is on par with everything else TF has done. “Tribe” didn’t call for as many organizational asides as “Tools of Titans” and that was welcome in my opinion. No decoder rings necessary.
“Tribe of Mentors” will appeal to anyone who’s looking for more shit to read, learn, and get better. It’s a red pill type book that I personally read through one time, took notes, and now leave lying around in the open to conveniently revisit. As a coffee table book intelligent friends will pick it up to read a few passages and instant meaningful conversation should break out. If not, you may want to re-think the folks you let hang out at your place.
- Reviewed in the United States on December 4, 2017Format: HardcoverVerified PurchaseShort Version of this review.
"Tribe of Mentors" is a book where Tim Ferris collects and shares deep, meaningful, practical and life-changing tips and hacks. These tools give you the power to positively improve or radically upgrade the way you live. Your upgrade will be on a personal, emotional, spiritual and practical level. Tim's teachers include a wide range of amazing people from legendary investor Ray Dalio to Navy Seal Jocko Willink (look him up) to Rabbi Lord Jonothan Sacks. These mentors become your mentors.
You can spend decades trying to reinvent the wheel in order to improve your life. Or you can pick up this book and learn from Tim's "Tribe of Mentors" and exponentially accelerate your learning curve. Instead of pushing a stone-age vehicle, drive a Ferrarri!
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I don't write many reviews, but I felt compelled to write this review out of gratitude; gratitude to Tim for writing "Tribe of Mentors", an amazing and valuable book.
I'm a big fan of Tim Ferris and his other books. However, due to some of the negative reviews, I considered not purchasing "Tribe of Mentors". Some reviews states that the information in the book was shallow and unorganized, etc....or at least compared to "Tools of Titans". But I am so glad I purchased the book. To understand why, lets look at "Tool of Titans" and compare its purpose to "Tribe of Mentors".
"Tools of Titans" was a compilation of Tim's best interviews as well as how he has applied this knowledge in his personal life. "Tribe of Mentors" is Tim choosing his 10 or so best open-ended questions and emailing them to "Mentors" that he's never had the chance to meet in person.
Since "Tools of Titans" is culled from podcasts which are off cuff, their spontaneous flow results in many low-hanging juicy nuggets. This contrasts sharply with "Tribe of Mentors" where Tim emails his mentors questions and they take hours or days to write thoughtful and sophisticated answers. Some of these answers are very deep. Many of these answers are very practical and can have an immediate impact on your life. At the same time, since the written answers are more thought out they often make more nuanced points and employ a more sophisticated vocabulary.
It follows that "Tribe of Mentors" doesn't give you the same instant gratification feeling imparted by the conversational style of "Tools of Titans". Don't get me wrong, it flows and is easy to read. But at the same time, you need to apply yourself more.
There is one aspect of the book that some reviewers criticized and I find fascinating; Tim asks everyone the same questions! While Tim only shares the best answers, the same questions do keep on cropping up over and over again. I completely understand how some can find this tedious. But let me tell you, "I love it". Here is why:
Every Mentor gives different answers to the same questions, providing a breadth and range of personality and knowledge on the topics; a range that I have never seen paralleled. It also shows you the strategies and mindset that different leaders and heroes use to defeat failure and thrive. These are real poeple so it follows that some of their strategies contradict each other. To me this shows the authenticity of the human experience as well as gives you a choice of tools to choose from. What strategy works best for you? This diversity and color also opened my mind towards valuing the diverse and sometimes contradictory parts of my personality. (At the same time, even I get tired of the same questions over and over and over and over again! Mix and spice things up!)
Some other really fun aspects of the book are that Tim has included links to interviews and other resources from many of the Mentors. He includes an index of the top books these leaders have purchased. There is also an index of best "under $100" purchases Tim's mentors have discovered.
I've gained so much from this book. It's fantastic and life-changing. I give it my highest recommendation.
If you'd read this far, thank you for joining me on this review. Leave me a reply after you've read the book letting me know what you think.
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MarcosReviewed in Spain on May 8, 2018
5.0 out of 5 stars I was waiting for this book!
Format: PaperbackVerified PurchaseTim Ferries is one of my favourites authors, I was so excited and to be honest, he never disappoint. Just one little thing to take into consideration. Don't expect a book with a story plot as I did, but expect a gathering of lot Titans's best quotes. When Im down and I need a bit of motivation, I open a random page and my motivation and willpower start rising..
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Erickson FernandesReviewed in Brazil on December 21, 2023
5.0 out of 5 stars Sensacional!!!
Format: HardcoverVerified PurchaseLivro lindo!!!!!
- AbdulReviewed in the United Arab Emirates on May 25, 2019
5.0 out of 5 stars Qualiry of the product
Format: PaperbackVerified PurchaseQuality product and timely delivery. The product used for self improvement
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Pablo ReyesReviewed in Mexico on December 5, 2020
5.0 out of 5 stars Algo que nunca tendríamos al alcance.
Format: HardcoverVerified PurchaseEsté libro nos ayuda a ver por medio de 11 preguntas como es que diferentes personalidades han llegado al éxito en sus distintas ramas, creo que es de suma importancia tener el libro ya que nunca podríamos tener al alcance a estas personalidades juntas en un solo libro y que mejor que contándonos sus formas de llegar al éxito de manera breve y amena.
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Ewald RuppReviewed in Germany on March 28, 2018
5.0 out of 5 stars REAL SUCCESS
Format: PaperbackVerified Purchase• ”To laugh often and much, to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children… to leave the world a bit better… to know even one life breathed easier because you lived. This is to have succeeded.”
Ralph Waldo Emerson (S. 123)
• “Success should not be measured by financial gain; true success is doing something you love for a living. Learn every aspect of your chosen field or craft, as it will give you an advantage over any competitors, and set you up for more – often better – job opportunities.”
Tony Hawk (S. 299)
• “Don’t aim at success. The more you aim at it and make it a target, the more you are going to miss it. For success, like happiness, cannot be pursued…. Happiness must happen, and the same holds for success: you have to let it happen by not caring about it. I want you to list to what your conscience commands you to do and go on to carry it out to the best of your knowledge. Then you will live to see that in the long-run – in the long-run, I say! – success will follow you precisely because you had forgotten to think about it.”
Viktor E Frankl (S. 561)
…so beschreiben verschiedene Persönlichkeiten „wahren“ Erfolg. Das kann ich genauso unterschreiben – diese Zitate sagen wirklich aus, was Erfolg bedeutet. Tim Ferriss hat in seinem neuen Buch „Tribe of Mentors“ wieder ein Meisterwerk abgeliefert. Der Kern dieses Buchs besteht darin Grüßen in unterschiedlichen Feldern 11 spezielle Fragen zu stellen. Diese können dann auf die antworten, die ihnen am meisten zusagen. Außerdem nützt er auch Absagen mit Zusage der Verfasser, um diese zu zitieren und den Leuten beizubringen wie sie richtig Nein sagen, denn das müssen viele lernen. Da sehr viele Menschen geantwortet haben, ist ein neuer Wälzer mit über 500 seinen entstanden. Da ich schon lange nichts mehr zu dieser Gruppe beigetragen habe, starte ich gleich mit einem langen Post. Und ja ich lese und rezensiere wieder (aufgrund von Wettkämpfen und Urlaub, habe ich mein Pensum deutlich heruntergeschraubt) – also in Zukunft wird wieder einiges von mir kommen :D
Das ist sind die 11 Fragen, welche er stellt:
1. What is the book (or books) you’ve given most as a gift, and why? Or what are one to three books that have greatly influenced your life?
2. What purchase of $100 or less has most positively impacted your life in the last six months (or in recent memory)? My readers love specifics like brand and model, where you found it, etc.
3. How has a failure, or apparent failure, set you up for later success? Do you have a “favourite failure” or yours?
4. If you could have a gigantic billboard anywhere with anything on it – metaphorically speaking, getting a message out to millions or billions – what would it say and why? It could be a few words or a paragraph. (If helpful, it can be someone else’s quote: Are there any quote you think of often or live your life by?)
5. What is one of the best or most worthwile investments you’ve ever made? (Could be an investment of money, time, energy, etc.)
6. What is an unusual habit or an absurd thing that you love?
7. In the last five years, what new belief, behaviour, or habit has most improved your life?
8. What advice would you give to a smart, driven college student about to enter the “real world”? What advice should they ignore?
9. What are bad recommendations you hear in your profession or area of expertise?
10. In the last five years, what have you become better at saying no to (distractions, invitations, etc.)? What new realizations and/or approaches helped? Any other tips?
11. When you feel overwhelmed or unfocused, or have lost your focus temporarily, what do you do? (If helpful: What questions do you ask yourself?)
Jeder der mal eine einzigartige Person kennenlernt, kann ihm ja diese Fragen stellen und ich bin überzeugt, dass er daraus etwas lernen kann. Da ich selber sehr viel aus dem Buch mitgenommen haben, zitiere ich nun Zitate aus verschiedenen Bereichen, welche mir am meisten zugesagt haben, mir gefallen haben oder mich tief berührt haben.
RELATIONSHIPS / PEOPLE
• “Make sure I’m dedicating my time to the right people with the question, “Is this someone I might be thinking about when I’m on my deathbed?”
“Make sure I’m spending enough high-quality time with the people I care about most with the question, “If I were on my deathbed today, would I be happy with the amount of time I spent with this person?” An alternative is thinking about other people’s deathbeds – “If X person were on their deathbed today, how would I feel about the amount of quality time I’ve spent with them?”
Tim Urban (S. 48)
• “I see meeting new people as the opportunity to open a new door to a new world that could change my or their life in some way. Seeing someone’s picture allows me to visualize their intentionality and unleashes more creative ideas about what we can discuss and how I may be able to help them. It also lets me access whether I have a “full-body yes” to actually seeing them and opening this new door, and if I don’t then I take my hand off the door handle.”
Graham Duncan (S. 61)
• “Over the last couple decades, I’ve noticed that the best, most enduring partnerships in business (and in life) are among people who constantly growing together. If the person you choose to depend on is constantly striving to learn and improve, you too will push yourself to new levels of achievement, and neither of you will feel like you have settled for someone you eventually outgrow.”
Max Levchin (S. 94)
• “Aniela and I have been married for 38 years, and we still have lots to talk about. We also have a tradition. At noon, we stop working and prepare ourselves for our date. After taking showers and dressing in our favorite clothes, we head to our favorite local restaurant. As soon as we walk in, the entire staff welcomes us with a smile and we head to our favorite table, guided by the chatting host. He offers a menu and a bottle of sparkling water while Aniela reads the menu. She chooses a different lunch each time, but I stay with the same appetizer (French fries) and a double vodka for my entrée with a plate of veggies on the side. I love our dates. Nothing is better than sitting with your wife after 42 years of being together and still enjoying the moment.”
Jerzy Gregorek (S.117) – und genau sollte Ehe bzw. Beziehung aussehen und nicht anders!
• “Friendship is born at the moment when one person says to another: What? You too? I thought I was the only one.” C. S. Lewis (S.121)
• “Life will present you with unexpected opportunities, and you won’t always know in advance which are the important moments. Above all, it’s the quality of your relationships that will determine the quality of your life. Invest in your connections, even those that seem inconsequential. (…) Always take the time to acknowledge people – and not just when you know you have something to gain. If you show interest in them, they will be interested in you. People react to kindness with kindness, to respect with respect. Relationships – even brief ones – are doorways to opportunity.”
Esther Perel(S. 180) – so und nicht anders geht man mit Menschen um!
• “Friendships are supposed to support your growth, not hold you back. End the ones that hold you back, and be curious about what kind of people you’re drawn to next.”
Kristen Ulmer(S. 550)
WORK
• “Careers where you’re the CEO include anything where you’re trying to start your own company, anything where you’re trying to make your name in the arts and win fans, anything where you’re doing freelance work – paths where you’re driving the ship of your own career and making the big decisions.” Tim Urban (S.46)
• “I’ve only ever had one house motto: ‚Fuck You, pay me.‘… Things like exposure, or reaching new audiences, or having a great experience are all well and good, but they don’t pay the rent or put food on the table. Know your worth.” Veronica Belmont (S. 100)
• “Don’t wait until you get a job to do the thing you want to be doing. For most careers, showing that you have initiative by working on projects related to your future is a great way to get a foot in the door. If you want to be a writer or journalist, start keeping a blog that you update regularly!”
Veronica Belmont (S. 103)
• “Always take jobs for which you are not qualified; that you will ineviteably learn something.” Esther Dyson (S. 245)
BODY
• “The way to get the strongest is to lift what is optimal and not what is maximal.”
• “I love my routine and when nothing upsets my routine. My dad used to tell me, ‘I know never to die and have my wake or funeral on a lifting day, because I know you won’t be there.”
• The biggest surprise was that I took my time and made a little, tiny bit of progress four or five times a year. When you make little progress four times a year over 28 years, you’re going to be pretty good at what you do. I never thought, “Oh, I have to lift X amount of weight or accomplish Y.” I just thought, “I’m going to get better, and this is what I have to do to get better. These are my weaknesses; let me correct my weaknesses.”
They don’t take their time. They don’t look at the long-term goals, the big picture. I’ll ask kids an old question every old guy asks: “Where do you want to be in five years? Where do you see yourself?” If I apply that question to lifting, a lot of people don’t get it. They’re only thinking, “What am I going to do within six months?” They don’t realize that if you make the whole body strong in every aspect that you possibly can over a period of just three years, you’ve created an impenetrable machine that won’t get hurt, that won’t break down, that you can have for the rest of your life because you followed what you’re supposed to at the beginning.
• “You only have so many max attempts in your body over your lifetime. Why waste them in the gym?”
Ed Coan (S. 309f)
WISDOM / LIFE ADVICE
• “I’m probably hopelessly out of date but my advice I get real-world experience: Be a cowboy. Drive a truck. Join the Marine Corps. Get out of the hypercompetitive “life hack” frame of mind. I’m 74. Believe me, you’ve got all the time in the world. You’ve got ten lifetimes ahead of you. Don’t worry about your friends “beating” you or “getting somewhere” ahead of you. Get out into the real dirt world and start failing. Why do I say that? Because the goal is to connect with your own self, your own soul. Adversity. Everybody spends their life trying to avoid it. Me too. But the best things that ever happened to me came during the times when the shit hit the fan and I had nothing and nobody to help me. Who are you really? What do you really want? Get out there and fail and find out.”
Steven Pressfield (S.6) – das habe ich mir damals notiert als ich das Buch im Dezember gelesen habe und dann bin ich mal einfach raus nach Thailand!!!
• “What you seek is seeking you.” RUMI (S.18)
• “We spend far too much time complaining about the way things are, and forget that we have the power to change anything and everything.”
Bozoma Saint John (S.38)
• “Be the change you want to see in the world.” Mahatma Ghandi (S.38)
• “People say that we’re all seeking a meaning for life. I don’t think that’s what we’re really seeking. I think that what we’re seeking is an experience of being alive.”
Joseph Campbell (S. 112)
• „A belief: the belief that we are all mini gods. I mean this in the sense of creators; in a way that should not feed our ego but our consciousness. This means the entire universe is not just outside but also within us. We have unlimited power – the power to slove any problems facing us or facing others.” Jerome Jarre (S. 261)
• “The great majority of that which gives you angst never happens, so you must evict it. Don’t let it live rent-free in your brain.” Peter Guber (S. 280)
• “Everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks of changing himself.” Leo Tolstoy (S. 334)
• “The key to a great life is simply having a bunch of great days. So you can think about it one day at a time.”
Mr. Money Mustach (S. 376) – so und nicht anders lebt man das Leben!!!
• “Every day is an opportunity to create a living masterpiece.” Michael Gervais (S. 412)
• “The true soldier fights not because he hates what is in front of him, but because he loves what is behind him.” G.k. Chesterton (S. 418)
• “He suffers more than necessary, who suffers before it is necessary.” Seneca (S. 513)
So dies sind meine Lieblingszitate. Ich hoffe ihr könnt euch auch etwas davon rausnehmen und seid motiviert dieses Buch zu lesen. Anhand der langen Zusammenfassung kann wohl jeder erkennnen, dass dies eine Leseempfehlung für jeden Menschen auf diesem Planeten ist, da ich überzeugt bin, dass jeder davon etwas rausnehmen kann!!!
Tribe of Mentors: Short Life Advice from the Best in the World